Trust...

Here am I typing away in the morning. Unusual of me to do so. There's 1 thing on my mind that is irritating me for quite awhile. The word trust. When it comes to trust issues, it is a big deal. When the trust between 2 people is damaged, it can never be repaired. I admit that I myself sometimes cannot be trusted. I'm living in a life of lies. Trust is.. feeling secure, knowing that you can count on that person. In a relationship, without trust nothing is possible. Both parties would start doubting each other. Whats the use of the relationship since there is no trust? I remember myself getting stuck in a situation like this. I was good friends with my ex-girlfriend's best friend. We would go out for lunches or for dinners a few times since we lived close to one another. But here is the catch : My girlfriend knows about it. I tell her about it and she accepts it. There is communication. When there is communication, there would certainly be trust. I remember having friends telling me that they do not trust their boyfriends/girlfriends. This is a simple decision to make if you really don't trust your partner : Thrash things out with them or simply, break up? It is harsh but it is the suggestion. Trust is built on a long-term basis. You can't just go up to a person and tell them ' I trust you '. That would totally be ridiculous. For a guy, for someone to trust them is almost like their credibility. When the guy is not trustworthy, there would be a chain reaction among friends that he is not trustable. It is especially true when a guy tells a girl he would wait. Proving her wrong that guys can wait for anything. Once the girl is proven wrong, there is trust. Time plays a part. People need to know what type of person are you. I know many trusted friends. But remember, they aren't exactly your best friends. Time plays a part because it allows you to know that person better.
I used to be a liar, a total bitchass liar. I lied to my parents before. I lied to teachers before. I lied to friends before. But all that has changed. I realise that, once a lie is told, another lie has to be committed. Would you want to live a life of lies? It certainly is useless. Also in the real world, with a person of trust, there would certainly be contacts all around. The cruel and real world needs trustworthy people. It is becoming a nuisance, what with corruption and many other tragedies befalling on innocent people.
If your reading this somewhere out there. Trust is a virtue. Being trusty is being cool.

·Peace™·
Cos' trust is the love..