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Saturday, March 28, 2009

Hmmm...

Funnily how I have been actually deciding to write anything here. For quite sometime I haven't blogged. Now I've already blogged in a span of a few days. Hmm and that is because there have been something on my mind and that my friends have been talking about it as well. I want to ask all, whoever might be reading this retarded piece of shit, : Do you know the true meaning of love? I'm very sure majority of answers would be : It is a feeling. It is a gesture. Yes this are the right answers. However, I would really urge you to step into the realm and think again. Love is actually, a committment. Yes, love is a feeling, undoubtedly. But imagine this 1 simple scenario : What happens when you feel the feeling has faded? Are you just end the relationship and find the feeling back with another? After hearing from a married couple about their committment to one another is simply, touching and full of envy. 20years of being married and another 5 years of courtship. What committment eh? Many asked how they have managed to sustain such a lasting marriage. The answer was just as easy as reciting ABC : committment. Also, surely, in a world like ours now. We talk about having boyfriends or girlfriends. Maturely speaking, many now have matured and says that, no matter what happens, being committed to the one that you are with, is just the best. It is a responsibility. It is also a chance to mature oneself. I haven't had the chance for a little more than 2years since that last ordeal. Life is full of ups and downs and many of us do not have true friends. The kind of friends who go through thick and thin with you, the kind that you know, who has your back. At least you know that you have someone close enough, to share your joy and pain, your sufferings and your celebrations. So my only advise is to choose wisely and to think carefully. It is useless to just enter a relationship based on feeling and that both of you are in it because you just ' love ' each other. Both must have the maturity and the responsibility and the committment to stick together.

I know I have been sounding a little old for awhile. But I believe this are learning processes that help one learn from mistakes. I'm not calling myself significant but I know I have been through periods where I believe Life is trying to make a statement. Everything is never perfect, no matter how perfectly you plan things out.

·Peace™·
Cos' Life is full of mysteries...

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